Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Today's Agenda: Addictions-Does One Always Replace The Other?

                      How many people do you know, or how many of you personally, have at one time been addicted to alcohol, cigarettes, or some type of illegal drug?  How many have attempted to quit their addiction of choice and succeeded?  Quitting your specific addiction can be extremely challenging, depending on how deep into the hole you've fallen.  I've had problems with addiction myself in the past, so based on my own personal experience, I have become very interested in the matter concerning the human mind in regards to addiction.  I have reached a personal conclusion, based on mine, and others I have personally discussed this with's experiences(plus several google search web articles I found), that we never seem to actually give up the actual addictive part of our personality.  Yes it's true, we can quit the addiction we initially set out to quit, which is great, however, our addictive behavior does not stop.
                     What I mean by this, is that we inevitably trade our addiction for another, to fill that hole left by the quitting of the other.  Some people simply trade one drug for one they consider less harmful, be that either marijuana, or something legal like alcohol.  Obviously, both are still bad.  As discussed in a previous post, alcohol is the most addictive, and dangerous drug there is in regards to withdrawal, organ damage, and overall deaths, and marijuana, whether people who use it are willing to accept it or not, does indeed release carcinogens when smoked, causing lung damage(not nearly as much as cigarettes), kills brain cells by the hundreds of thousands(which does indeed result in short term memory loss), and causes a sever lack of motivation to much of anything besides watch tv, play video games, and eat everything in sight.
(QUICK SIDE NOTE-Users of any drug, I don't care what it is, will always try and defend their use of it,  whether they are defending the harm of the drug itself, or stating the always classic, "I'm not addicted, I can quit anytime I want, I just don't want to," line, there is no drug known to man that does not have any type of harmful effect on you body, marijuana included, despite the belief of stoners worldwide.)
                    So you might be wondering, 'What about people that stop using a chemical substance like the fore mentioned, and don't trade it for another drug?  There's nothing that they can be addicted to other than drugs that could be considered negative.'  Of course, that was just my cheezy, classic high school informational video question, that always leads into something like, "Well actually, that is quite incorrect.  You can be addicted to anything, such as: food, candy, sex, exercise, soda, tv, etc.  Pretty much anything that we as humans enjoy, can be overly used and abused in an addictive manner, that could cause us either, physical or mental harm."
                     Now I can bet there's two on the above list that you may not agree with, those being sex and exercise.  Everybody loves sex(besides those who have never had it, or priests........unless it's with little boys), but it can most certainly become addicting in very negative ways like purchasing the company of a prostitute, excessive self pleasuring(including public restrooms, or wherever you happen to feel the urge. lol), and the excessive viewing of pornography.  It becomes a problem when your entire life surrounds sex.
                     Exercise is the same thing.  People that go to the gym for 6 hours or more a day, 7 days a week, while stuffing their body full of overdoses of vitamins and body building substances like creatine, etc, can be very harmful to your body, due to overexertion and to much chemical imbalance with the excess vitamins.  So even things that most would consider harmless, or even healthy(like exercise and sex both can be), can be abused in a negative way, especially for those who are leaving an addiction.  I know someone that had quit smoking cigarettes, and developed an unnatural, excessive addiction to chewing gum and eating sunflower seeds, to where it became a nasty, disgusting habit.  Nobody likes to stare at someone chomping on 4 pieces of gum, or see ashtrays and bowls all over the place filled with saliva drenched, chewed up sunflower seed shells.
                    So now that you've heard my thoughts on the subject....What are yours?  Have you experienced the same type addiction trade that I'm referring to, personal or with others?  Or do truly believe that addiction can totally be beaten without replacing it with even the smallest addictive behaviors?  Even religious practices can become addicted to and over used in a mentally unhealthy way.  Give me your feedback.

6 comments:

  1. Nice topic, good choice Jeff. There should be a good amount of feedback on this one. I think everyone has some type of addiction, or has seen someone addicted to something.
    I agree with you on the fact that people substitute addictions all the time. When people are addicted to drugs and alcohol its because they are trying to escape reality. People become addicted to things for numerous reasons.Either they aren't comfortable in their own skin, or they just hate their lives, and also, for a lot of people they are haunted by memories. (Which could also fall under not being comfortable in their own skin when pertaining to molestation, abuse etc.)
    I don't think you can truly beat an addiction until you've come to terms with who you are as a person, and with life in general. I think once you come to that understanding with yourself that then and only then can you live without that crutch to stand with.
    All that being said, do what you want. You only live once. Life is all about choices. If you don't care to work towards quitting your addiction, that's your decision. It's your life. Also, If it doesn't consume you and hinder you from doing other things,whether it be needs or wants, whatever, do you. However, once, and if it starts to affect others lives, that's when I have a problem with it.
    On the working out portion of this, I think those types of people are addicted to bettering themselves. Which isn't a bad thing. And on the sex portion, MakeItHappen. Haha

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  2. Wow...Very, very well written. I'm impressed. If I didn't know you personally, I might have thought you were a professional writer. Anyways, thank you for your comment, I think you put my topic into better words than I myself even did, I'll have to use you as a guest writer sometime. As for the addiction to bettering themselves comment you made in response to my topic of excessive exercise, I'll say that I agree to an extent, but when that person's workout routine takes over every aspect of their life, and not allowing their body to rest, they are no longer bettering themselves. Exercising to that extreme extent can be extremely damaging to a person's body, which is ironic, seeing as that person initially started working out to better their health. So, overall, an addiction to exercise can actually be one of the most harmful, both mentally(due to excess hours and time spent at gym, limiting their social interaction with friends and family), and physically. I will say again, however, you have quite a talent for writing, at least your own thoughts(as that's all I've seen you write.) You would probably be very good at creative writing if you tried.

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  3. No problemm bro. I'll start commenting more often. I've always been good at writing. I don't have the need to do it is all.
    I agree with you 100 percent. When someone takes it to that extent, that's all bad. If you re-read what I wrote, I said as long as their addiction doesn't hinder the person from other things, its fine. Clearly if your living in a gym its hindering you from other things in life.
    I'll give you an example of what I mean; When I'm working out consistently, I'm addicted. I have to go to the gym and get that workout done for a couple reasons. I don't want to mess up my routine, (whatever it may be) I want to feel that burn, I want to look and feel better, but most importantly, I'm addicted to the sense of accomplishment. You know as well as i do, I'm not one of these extreme cases, but I would still consider myself addicted to it.

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  4. Jeff, I am a recovering addict who has read your blog. I say recovering because I will always be an addict, recovering. I absoultly agree because of my own experiances, you can trade one addiction for another and your right drugs are not the only thing you can be addicted to. Alcohol is a drug (Period). I say this because in my recovery program that I live states that, it helped me to realize that drugs were not my only issue that alcohol was as well. I also feel because you can turn one addiction into another no matter what it is being clean is not enough without recovery, and recovery for me is working a twelve step program. It teaches me to live life on lifes terms in all areas of my life. I'm always a work in progress and I just live life to the best of my ability. I have heard of people that don't work a program and just quit there addiction, and this may work for some, but often the one's that I have seen sometimes pick up right were they left off and spirwal down even faster than before. I just know that recovery was the first thing and the last thing that has worked for me after many many years of active addiction. I work on many things in my life today and Im happy to say that the desire to use is at the bottom of that list.

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  5. There has been many people in my life that Ive known that Ive watched struggle with addiction. I myself was a child caught in the cross fire of addiction, and because of that It has made me wise in some ares. I think your blog topic was a perfect choice. I also feel your right. One addiction can very well be replaced for another and simply quitting doesn't work for everyone.

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  6. First off, I want to give my sincere respect and admiration to you Nancy B. for having the strength to overcome your addiction to better your life and the lives of the ones around you who care for you most. I too, like Bri has just stated, had to grow up among drug and alcohol addiction, often resulting in being evicted from our homes, or my personal favorite, moving transient and/or burnt out drug addicts with mental issues into our home. Had it not been for my Grandparents, I might be a completely different person, for the worse. Although both parents have been sober from chemical drugs for quite a while now, they have doubled their drinking habits. I know that, for me, when I quit my previous addiction, I did indeed replace that hole with an increase in my alcohol intake, which of course, is not a health substitute in the least. I really appreciate you sharing your story with both myself and my readers. Thank you again. Also, thank you to Bri, I think you might be my most loyal reader and commenter

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